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Posted by2 months ago

Alright my desi studs, what are the best countries and cities for dating apart from your home country of course?

I'm a fairly fit and good looking dude according to South Asian standards although I'm 5'7 which is a bit on the shorter side. I've been in Boston for a year now and dating for an South Asian immigrant definitely sucks here.

I've been thinking lately that I need to start taking more responsibility for my dating life. I work in tech so I have the luxury of either working remote and move to a different city in US or getting a job and move to another country. Which city within the US or other countries do you think is more receptive to Desi men? I know that Boston is not gonna be on that list lol

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I don’t know much about you but I was in Boston for 3 years and with just tinder I had great success. I think with the college students it makes a great place to date you won’t find anywhere else.

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Op · 2 mo. ago

Maybe Tinder was good 3 years ago but it's not that good anymore. I don't really take dating apps seriously but I can try again

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Ive been all over the world and I think every guy's experience in a place will be different. There's no way to say X place is good for guys of X ethnicity. It depends how you look and behave and so many other things. All I will say is that getting out of America makes a huge difference because most places will have less fat girls. That alone expands the dating pool.

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Lol

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Wrong. California NYC and South Florida have some of the most attractive women In the world lol. Sounds like u got hurt

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Brazil!

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Could you expand upon your experience there? Any idea about other countries in South America?

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I had a good time in northern Brazil. But its better to speak Portuguese because English isnt so common. Its easy to fit in as a local if you are desi. Brazilian girls can be really open to kissing but more isnt as easy. And they have lots of US problems now: obesity, feminazism, etc

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· 2 mo. ago
Banned from ABCDESIS

Vaduz, Liechtenstein, also Gitega and Antananarivo

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level 2

Have you actually been to these places and are you speaking from first hand experience?

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· 2 mo. ago
Pakistani 🇵🇰

You think anywhere in the world is good for desi guys just based off your ethnicity? Lawl. Lala land.

Fuck that shit, be a man, go approach. Set up dates.

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level 2

I get that you should always strive to be your best no matter where you are, and make the most of opportunities and create them if you must. No contest there.

But.

Have you been abroad on, say, spring break or in the summer at a European party island, or been to Latin America for months at a time as a single dude? I mean, no offense, but do you and the other guys that immediately dismiss the notion of women in some places being way more receptive than others, even have a passport?

The only guys allowed to respond in threads like this should be those that have extensive experience both abroad and in their home countries as that’s the only way for someone to truly gauge if location matters or not.

Not sure why some on here struggle so hard with the concept that location can make a difference lol. It’s not rocket science really.

Personally, I and literally all of my friends that’ve traveled abroad extensively have noticed it. Some killed it in Latin American, others did really well in some parts of Europe, and yet others bombed and only do well in the US.

Location absolutely does matter, you’re really closing yourself off to some amazing women if you don’t believe it.

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· 2 mo. ago
Banned from ABCDESIS

These people are actually ridiculous like holy fuck

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· 2 mo. ago
Punjabi 🇵🇰

Literally, it’s 100x easier to improve yourself than to go to a different country to try to get girls. Lmao

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^

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Work on maximizing your value first because if you don’t it doesn’t matter where you move to. Get buff and be in a good place career wise. Once you do that, move to a place where the “desi tax” is a lot less than it is here.

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Haven't had an issue in international cities in the middle east (Doha, Dubai, etc).

Also UK and Ireland seem grand, even smaller towns (the town I grew up in had like 20,000 people and I still pulled).

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